The Vow Adventure Kit

My tried-and-true kit used by hundreds of my couples.

Imagine going on one solo adventure, plus two fun date nights and your vows are finished!

The entire time it feels easy to write meaningful vows in your own style, whether you are naturally verbally expressive or not so much.

The adventures and date nights bring you two closer - discovering even more about your feelings for one another, and clarifying what makes your relationship strong.

By the time you’re done with vow creation, you have a set of clear guiding principles completely tailored to your relationship - a north star that you can always return to for wisdom and to remember what’s most important in your married years to come.

Want to have this kind of experience while writing your vows?

Relax And Be Guided

In my many years of officiating, I have guided hundreds of couples in vow writing. The Vow Adventure Kit has my time-tested practices, activities and insights. You won’t have to stress yourself out by getting on the internet to look at a bunch of other peoples’ vows because I’ll show you how the best vows come 100% from within. And because my couples tend to love adventure, I’ve created date nights, games and mini outings to facilitate you!

What’s Included

Solo Adventure To Write “Why I Love You’s”

Date Night #1 To Explore Core Commitments

Date Night #2 To Write Core Commitments

Solo Adventure To Write Surprise Commitments

Activity Sheets & Game Cards

How The Kit Works

Solo Adventure: Write “Why I Love You’s”

The “Why I Love You’s” are the optional preamble to your vows. They express why and how much you love your partner, whereas vows are the actual promises. These two go hand in hand though, as Why I Love You’s are shared right before vows.

This adventure helps you turn away from all the external noise, like what you think you’re supposed to say, or how you think you’re supposed to sound, or worry that you have to write “perfect” vows. It instead turns you toward your connection and your own style for writing.

Whether you are a natural writer or someone who feels awkward with words, this activity will draw out your own style. And believe me, your true style - being truly yourself, no matter how long or short, eloquent or basic your vows are, is the best and most meaningful way to write Why I Love You’s,

This solo activity includes:
• Activity How-To & Worksheet.
• Simple mini adventure to inspire your writing.
• The questions prompts that have helped hundreds of my couples write amazing vows.

2 Date Nights To Decide On Core Commitments

Vows are an incredible opportunity to deepen your relationship, and to create a set of guiding north star principles - a literal marriage “how-to” guide specifically tailored to the two of you, and that keeps you coming back to what is most important.

This date nights guide you to decide on a set of Core Commitments together, rather than write promises separately as couples often do. It’s the ultimate in great communication - the chance to genuinely explore and decide, as a couple, the commitments that define and guide your marriage. You’ll set aside all preconceptions of what you think you’re supposed to vow, and instead discover what truly matters to you as a couple.

The 2 Date Nights include:
• Activity How-To & Worksheets.
• Fun game cards to clarify your Core Commitment themes.
• Simple game to narrow down to your top 5 Core Commitments.
• 50 Core Commitment theme examples from real couples to inspire your own.

Write Surprise Commitments

Solo Adventure: Write Surprise Commitments

Surprise commitments are optional. They are an opportunity to make promises that only you make, and that are not part of the Core but are still important to you. They can be funny or caring or quirky or deeply meaningful. They are also an opportunity to surprise your partner with promises that haven’t yet been heard.

This solo activity includes:
• Activity How-To & Worksheet.
• Mini adventure to identify Surprise Commitments.

Vow Adventure Kit Results

A great time writing your vows.

Ease in writing, whether you’re a natural or not.

Beautiful words to share, in your own style.

A powerful set of guiding principles for your marriage.

Speaking with confidence because the words are in your own voice.

A deepening of your relationship along the way.

Instant Download The Kit To Write Those Vows!

Purchase & Instant Download

Upon purchase, you’ll land on the download page for instant access.

The Kit is digital - an instant download PDF workbook to guide you.
The document lives on a password-protected website page for your easy access.

The kit is fully refundable within 24 hours of purchase. After that, the kit is non-refundable.

$29

Got Questions?

If you think the Vow Adventure Kit may be a great fit, but you’re not quite sure, please ask. I wouldn’t want an unasked question or unexpressed concern to keep you from getting clarity for yourself, whether you decide yes or no. Please reach out using the handy form below and we’ll get back to you with a call or email!